It's been a long time since I've posted on this blog. Mostly that so much has happened that it's been overwhelming to try and catch up with it all. Between my trip to Europe, my move to Bakersfield for my new job, my grandmother's passing, my friend's wedding...time just slipped away from me! But on a day like today, I think it's important to remember the blessings in life.
* MY FAMILY *
For my wonderful family, my mom who I couldn't live without, a great brother and sister in law, my dad's successful surgery.
For my aunt's courage and fight as she bravely battles cancer. She's not only my aunt but my godmother and I pray everday for her to win this fight.
For the healthy birth of my cousin's daughter Grace. She's so cute and I can't wait to meet her!
For my kitty, Teela. Yes, she's a cat but she was a part of my family for 13 years, almost half of my life. I had to put her to sleep in October in what was the hardest thing for me to ever do. I miss her cry, the way she'd follow you around, the way she pawed at you looking for that perfect spot to lay down in your lap. But I'm thankful I was able to give her a loving home, and the joy she brought to all our lives.
For the 27+ years God granted me to know my Grandma Bee. She was a remarkable lady and I'm thankful that at the end her suffering wasn't long.
* MY SWEETIE *
I've ALWAYS been the single one, the friend who never had any luck in love, the one in the family never to bring someone home. It took me a while and lots of bad turkeys (he he) to find the right one, to find my best friend. Life just wouldn't be the same without him. I'm so thankful he stuck around! :)
* MY FRIENDS *
Times change and people change. You lose touch with some friends and you make new ones. Since I've moved away from home, I've come to realize who my true friends are and though I don't have hundreds of them, the few I do have mean the world to me. Those that immediately offered up condolences when my grandma died, who sent an email or came to the funeral home, my friends from college who even after months of not being in contact, they are always there for me, and bring a big smile to my face by a simple text message today from my friend Darla. I'm truly blessed.
* MY JOB *
* MY HEALTH *
* MY FREEDOM *
I often wonder what people in third world coutnries who may have never heard of the good life we lead would think of us. The crazy shoppers that head out the day after thanksgiving in an effort to buy loads of gifts. When there are people in this world who go to bed hungry, those who never learn to read, those who are driven out of their homes by armed militias some raped and murdered, those that never make it to adulthood simply because of where they were born. By the grace of God, I was born a US Citizen with all the rights and freedoms that affords. And I am thankful for those brave men and women willing to fight and ultimately willing to die for that freedom if it so requires. Want to give a special shout out to Danny, Jay, Bobby and Kelly over in Iraq and all their comrades. Come home safe.
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I hope that wherever you spent this Thanksgiving, you were among loved one or at least with them in spirit. And I hope each of you gave thanks for all you've been blessed with. If you're reading this, you're probably a close friend or in my family and I love you all. Thank you!!!! :)